Gay but want to be straight
Long-suffering Spectator readers deserve a seasonal break from yet another Remoaner diatribe from me. My last on this page, making the outrageous suggestion that the populace may sometimes be wrong, is now organism brandished by online Leaver-readers of my Times column as proof that I am in fact a fascist; so there isn’t anywhere much to depart from there.
Instead, I shift to sex. There is little time left for me to write about sex as the thoughts of a septuagenarian on this subject (I shift 70 this year) may soon meet only a shudder. But I possess a theory which I have the audacity to think important.
What follows is not written here for the first time, and much of it is neither original nor new; but on very scant subjects have I ever been more sure I’m right, or more sure that future generations will see so, and wonder that it stared us in the face yet was not acknowledged. My firm belief is that in trying to categorise sex, sexuality and — yes — even gender, the late 19th, 20th and early 21st centuries have taken the medical and social sciences down a massive bl
Re: i'm a female & i'm (sexually) attracted to male lover guys
Unread postby Sam W »
Got it, so it does sound love a big part of this simply has to undertake with a certain type of guy (but not the only type of guy) you uncover attractive.
When you want to be a guy in those moments, what is it, specifically, that you want? Is it to be fit to engage in certain things sexually? To have a certain role in a sexual dynamic? Something else? And when you state this happens when you see pretty gay guys in your surroundings, are those guys who you know are gay, or who look a certain way?
With fetishizing or objectifying people, that depends on whether you notice these guys as individual, unique humans or more as a blank slate that you can project your desires onto. It's also sound to consider about what's attracting you to them and how much of it might be based on stereotypes about that specific group (it might be the case that none of it is) rather than the realities of that individual person.
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